Monday, January 18, 2010

Gay pon farr

In case anybody hasn't figured it out from my last couple of posts - I'm kinda going through my gay pon farr right now.  I first blogged about this phenomena 2-1/2 years ago here and here.

I don't stress out about it like I once did - I accept it as just something that happens every now and then.  And, pon farr sounds a whole lot nicer than h--ny.

So, please bear with me as I cycle through my man-crushes until this pon farr cycle subsides.


MoHoHawaii said...

Do you ever read gay-themed romantic novels? There's a whole genre of gay lit out there. E.M. Forster's Maurice is an example. I don't have a list of favorite titles because I don't read many of these, but I can recommend Michael Cunningham's A Home at the End of the World.

I wonder if reading these would help. The romance genre certainly works for sexually frustrated straight women. (I draw the line at bubble baths and chocolate!)

Beck said...

I am "bearing with you" as you cycle through! You know I've been there / done that multiple times.

My advice? Enjoy it!

Mister Curie said...

I'm happy to journey along with you through your Pon-Farr. Thanks for sharing the journey. :)

Jon said...

So is this post also to confess a crush on Leonard Nimoy?

Abelard Enigma said...

Duh! Well, of Spock - the young Spock of the TOS era. And, the even younger Spock (aka Zachary Quinto). Heck, might as well throw young Kirk (aka Chris Pine) in there as well.

Mister Curie said...

I have to agree with you on Zachary Quinto and Chris Pine.
So, what are your coping strategies when it comes to Pon Farr?